Ive had two major thoughts that weighed on my mind within these past couple of weeks. Okay so first...
The ole, "I got a girlfriend/boyfriend now, so im going to disappear from the face of the earth syndrome". Listen I am all about love, and relationships... I mean hell, I have been searching for one myself for quite sometime now. There is just one difference between me and some other people I am acquainted with, on how they handle there relationships with their significant other and their friends. It just bothers me that your close friends can be so easily pushed to the side or forgotten just because you find a significant other. Honestly majority bring around an interest to their friends for their approval. And once the core friends approve I figure it would be completely okay to bring them around once in a while and enjoy a football game, or enjoy a night out to hang out. BUT now that you have had the friend approval you proceed to fade yourself away from your friends, not hang out and rarely give them calls or texts. In my opinion, it is not difficult to pick up the phone and give a text to your friends to see how they are doing once in a while. I am ashamed to admit i have one friend that is very good at doing this. I respect that so much. Those are the friends that I know will not completely phase away and actually be there for the long haul. Most friends mean well, but i think they get so caught up in their own worlds, that they dont see how it effects their other components of their world. It should be closer observed.
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